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你想过怎样的人生  

2012-02-06 13:51:20|  分类: 进化论Self Impro |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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你是不是也像我一样,常常在想活着的意义,奋斗的意义,爱与被爱的意义。怎样才是真正有价值,快乐,无悔的人生?这个问题见仁见智,没有统一的答案。

分享一个在重症监护室工作多年的护士,收集的重症病人们在最后几天里回顾人生,最后悔的事情

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

"This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realize, until they no longer have it."

面对真实的自己,而不是别人期待的你。 勇敢的做自己的女王。管别人说去吧,走自己的路。有钱难买我愿意。


2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.

"This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence."

这个不用说了,我想很多工作狂的男人们,认为自己的快乐只有华山一条路 --- 挣更多的钱,而放弃了一路上幸福的风景。 而很多感情生活不幸的女人,往往是因为在事业上太过有野心。


3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

"Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result."

很多人活了一辈子也没能鼓起勇气向爱慕的人表露心声。


4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

"Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying."


5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

"This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again."

在抱怨自己不快乐的同时,想一想是什么令你这么不快乐,并努力改变它。


What's your greatest regret so far, and what will you set out to achieve or change before you die?

你目前最大的遗憾是什么呢?从现在就开始改变它吧!



下面这个是朋友转发给我的,每天起了床看看,做指航针,把每天的基调都打好,一点一滴积累起来。人生苦短,善待自己!

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